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		<title>An Open Letter From A Black Woman</title>
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I hurt myself today. I was on Twitter talking about rape culture &#38; this triggering victim blaming post at VSB. And it triggered the hell out of me so I&#8217;m just going to say up front that this is coming from that place. See, I said the things I needed to say, but now I [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2012/01/24/an-open-letter-from-a-black-woman/">An Open Letter From A Black Woman</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>I hurt myself today. I was on Twitter talking about rape culture &amp; this triggering victim blaming <a href="http://verysmartbrothas.com/rape-responsibility-and-the-fine-line-between-victim-blaming-and-common-sense/">post</a> at VSB. And it triggered the hell out of me so I&#8217;m just going to say up front that this is coming from that place. See, I said the things I needed to say, but now I have to say something else &amp; it is too long for twitter. And although I am directing this specifically to black men, overall this is something I feel needs to be said to everyone. Black women (like me) are more likely to be victims of domestic violence and sexual assault than almost any other group (the numbers are also incredibly high for NDN women), and we are out here on the front lines every day. Black men expect us to have their backs in battles with institutionalized racism. And mostly we do. But, we&#8217;re not seeing a whole lot of return on that investment when it comes to institutionalized racialized misogyny. And that fucking hurts.</p>
<p>Yes, on an individual level some of you are right there in the trenches with us. But some of you? Man look, I know life is hard for everyone of color on some level, but we shouldn&#8217;t have to worry about being safe from men in our communities as well as men outside our communities. And yes, men are victimized too. I know that, but I&#8217;m a woman and I&#8217;m going to speak from my experience in this post. Because here&#8217;s the thing, it&#8217;s easy to say that women should know better, do better at staying away from bad guys. But, it&#8217;s not like they&#8217;re wearing a sign around their necks. And often those guys have friends who are decent dudes. So we assume that they are decent too until they show us something different.</p>
<p>Sometimes they show us early enough &amp; lightly enough that we get out of the situation basically unscathed. But sometimes? Sometimes your boy that you know ain&#8217;t shit that&#8217;s been dogging some broad out? Yeah, he proceeds to fuck that broad up the first time she catches wind of a problem. And instead of jumping bad at him, too many of you start blaming her. That&#8217;s a terrible thing to do. And you know it. Because your boy has already told enough jokes, or said enough off shit that you wouldn&#8217;t let him near your sister, your baby cousin, or your best friend. So, why is he still your boy?</p>
<p>Real talk, I have some female friends that are messy who don&#8217;t do half the shit I see some dudes out here doing, and I keep them away from my guy friends. Because they&#8217;re messy &amp; I don&#8217;t want anyone I care about to get hurt. If I could I&#8217;d warn off some other folks too. But my friends aren&#8217;t rapists or abusers. People like that don&#8217;t get to stay in my life. Some of you are friends with dudes who are both. Hell, some of you reading this (whether you admit it to yourself or not) are guilty of those behaviors. And while I&#8217;m all for redemption or whatever, I really need to know how much shit has to happen to black women at the hands of black men, before y&#8217;all start checking each other? What does it take for men of color to really collectively dig into confronting their privilege &amp; misogyny? We know some of you hate us, now we want to know what those of you who don&#8217;t hate us are going to do about it?</p>
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		<title>How To Write About Black Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 04:08:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>karnythia</dc:creator>
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First, state your credentials. It&#8217;s okay to be a woman, but not a black woman. Their lived experiences are immaterial and can be dismissed as merely anecdotal. Make it clear that you are not racist or sexist, you are merely concerned about their plight. What plight? Well, pick one. Or several. Marriage, children, lack of [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2012/01/18/how-to-write-about-black-women/">How To Write About Black Women</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>First, state your credentials. It&#8217;s okay to be a woman, but not a black woman. Their lived experiences are immaterial and can be dismissed as merely anecdotal. Make it clear that you are not racist or sexist, you are merely concerned about their plight. What plight? Well, pick one. Or several. Marriage, children, lack of the above, too much education, not enough education, welfare, whatever you think will sell. It only matters that you highlight their troublesome natures. Whatever it is, you must be sure to make it clear that they aren&#8217;t like other women. They are failing to perform in some way that affects the whole of society, even if you can&#8217;t quite explain how or why their personal lives are public property. Further, rely heavily on the idea of research that shows the problem is a problem. Never mention exactly when that research was done, or who were the subjects of it. Too much context may unnecessarily complicate the conversation.</p>
<p>Utilize stereotypes whenever possible, preferably ones that tie into the Mammy, Jezebel, or Sapphire tropes. Describe black women in ways that play up their sexuality and remove their humanity. After all they are Other, so their skin is a food stuff, the space between their thighs is mysterious, and they have never ever been innocent. No need to mention virginity or purity, even when speaking of black female infants, your focus must be on their sexuality. If you are speaking of black mothers make it clear that they need guidance, financial support, or salvation. What salvation? Well that all depends on whether they work too little and thus are on welfare, or work too much and thus are neglecting their children. There is no point at which they can balance work and family, because again they are Other and that is not possible for them. They are emasculating and thus unworthy of relationships, or the key to being masculine with their all knowing sexuality that is present from birth. Unrapeable, they can be trusted to raise any children but their own, and are sexually available until they become sexless.</p>
<p>They exist to be support systems, whether for men of all colors or women of every color but black. No need to mention their needs, hopes, dreams, or concerns. They have none, even if they do occasionally speak of themselves as real people with feelings. Their voices are too loud, too uneducated, or simply too aggressive. They are always angry about something, but their feelings aren&#8217;t real so they don&#8217;t matter. Be sure to specify how reasonable you are in the face of their unreasonable behavior. Write of how you studied them at a safe distance, while proclaiming that some of your closest friends are black women. No need to know anything about those close friends, but their names since all that matters is that you have them as proof that you know your subject, and are not racist or sexist.</p>
<p>Contrast them with women of other races, always making sure to highlight that other women are real women, while black women are simply black. Feel free to make blanket statements about their religious beliefs, educational levels, income levels, and family dynamics. All of it is true because you say it is, and you are the expert in black women, not any actual black women. If they are offended by your words, remind them of your credentials and refuse to engage in a conversation with them until they can be less emotional. Point to their tone as a reason to doubt the veracity of their experiences. After all they are only black women and thus they know nothing, own nothing, and are worth nothing but what you say they are.
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		<title>Dear White Women Who Think You Mean Well,</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 03:03:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>karnythia</dc:creator>
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I’m about to get in my feelings as a black mother about this bullshit unsolicited advice to Blue Ivy Carter. I freely admit that I do not give even a tiny bit of a fuck about whatever literary conceits are about to be defended as part of justifying it. Because this letter was not written [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2012/01/12/dear-white-women-who-think-you-mean-well/">Dear White Women Who Think You Mean Well,</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>I’m about to get in my feelings as a black mother about this bullshit <a href="http://www.good.is/post/unsolicited-advice-for-blue-ivy-carter-growing-up-as-the-girl-of-beyonce-and-jay-z/">unsolicited advice</a> to Blue Ivy Carter. I freely admit that I do not give even a tiny bit of a fuck about whatever literary conceits are about to be defended as part of justifying it. Because this letter was not written in a vacuum. This letter was not written out f any genuine concern for her health or safety. This letter was little more than a stunt that used a child of color &amp; her parents to bolster a career. Yes I am sure she will say she meant no harm or disrespect. That she was trying to say good things to Blue Ivy, because she wants to help. Some will likely even say that her message was positive &amp; for the best. Guess what?</p>
<p>We do not exist in a world where mothers of color can walk around without someone passing judgement on their right to be mothers simply because of the color of their skin. We do not live in a world where a woman of color becoming a mother is supported or respected. We do not exist in a world where white women who think they know best have not harmed families of color. We live in a world where white women often decide to “rescue” children of color by taking them from their homes, their cultures, and their mothers. So when a white woman decides she is “helping” by addressing a child of color she does not know as though her words will have any value to that child? I am already wary.</p>
<p>The fact that she is speaking to a newborn about topics that are emphatically none of her damned business &amp; are in fact the province of that child’s parents just makes it even more offensive. It is a curious sort of racist White Woman’s Burden logic that allows you to engage with mothers of color in ways that would be patently offensive to you if the tables were turned. I have seen white mothers of children of color get deeply offended when conditioner and oil are suggested as remedies for the “unmanageable” hair of their child. Often that suggestion comes while they stare at the hair of our children and want to know how we get it to behave.</p>
<p>Meanwhile you often feel entitled to speak to us of everything from religion to sex as though we do not have our own morals to impart to our children. I have had my own share of “helpful” white women who do not know me, but who feel quite comfortable questioning my parenting decisions on every front. Over the last 12 years I have had unsolicited input from those women on everything from what I feed my son with food allergies, to how much responsibility I give to my son with special needs. These are not white women who are my friends, not women who my children know well, these are not even white women who have set foot in my house.</p>
<p>Instead they are little more than strangers (or in some cases employees at a child care facility) with little direct contact with my children. But they feel their input is worthwhile because I am black and a mother, and clearly I can’t know what I’m doing. Here is a thought for those white women who feel the need to approach mothers of color, or their children with unsolicited advice. Don’t. Really, just strangle whatever urge it is that drives you to behave so offensively, and practice the fine art of minding your own damned business. You are not our elders, our partners, or in fact in part of our lives. You do not know what is best for our children, or how we should raise them to survive in a racist society that allows your children safety &amp; security that our children will never know. Spend more time teaching your kids (and yourself) how to engage with people of color as people, and less time finding ways to stroke your egos by attacking ours.</p>
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		<title>On Police Brutality, Living While Of Color, &amp; Why Brutality At OWS isn&#8217;t Shocking</title>
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I’ve seen a lot of posts talking about OWS, police brutality, race, gender, &#38; intersectionality. Many of those posts include links to the famous stories of police brutality. And those stories are important &#38; should be told. But, by only talking about those stories I worry that we’re giving the impression that police brutality is [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/11/23/on-police-brutality-living-while-of-color-why-brutality-at-ows-isnt-shocking/">On Police Brutality, Living While Of Color, &#038; Why Brutality At OWS isn&#8217;t Shocking</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>I’ve seen a lot of posts talking about OWS, police brutality, race, gender, &amp; intersectionality. Many of those posts include links to the famous stories of police brutality. And those stories are important &amp; should be told. But, by only talking about those stories I worry that we’re giving the impression that police brutality is relatively rare in communities of color. I’ve posted in the past about the cop who called me a nigger when I was 12 &amp; the time my (then) 13 year old husband was beaten up by a cop. But, those weren’t our only run ins with abusive police officers. Experience has taught me to worry about the cops. I think of them as a risk to navigate more than I think of them as people who are here to protect me or my family. My husband &amp; I have already had the talks with our oldest son about how to act when he’s stopped by the cops. Notice I said when he’s stopped.</p>
<p>That’s because I have been stopped while doing everything from taking a walk to grocery shopping to helping someone move. My father in law runs a Medicar service that primarily caters to the elderly who need help getting from their homes to doctor’s appointments. My husband used to ride along to help him out, since it’s a family business. One day they were stopped by the police because some cop decided a white van leaving a hospital on the West Side of Chicago fit the description of a tan truck that had been involved in a robbery in the Loop. They forced them out of the vehicle at gunpoint while a bunch of elderly people watched &amp; worried. When it became clear that they didn’t fit the description? The cops told them they were free to go and left. That’s it. No apology, no consideration for all the people in the vehicle, but then everyone involved was a POC.</p>
<p>Matter of fact, let me tell you about <a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20100120025739/http://cbs2chicago.com/local/seizure.arrest.kourtney.2.1248626.html">Kourtney Wilson</a>. I’ve known her since she was a teenager. She’s a nice young lady who unfortunately has lupus. Two years ago she had a seizure, her roommate dialed 911 &amp; when the paramedics came (despite being told about her health status), they manhandled her &amp; had the police arrest her.  As if that wasn’t bad enough they took her all over the place (two different precinct houses &amp; two different hospitals) so that she was denied medical treatment for 9 hours. Think about that for a second. NINE HOURS after she had the seizure she finally got the help she needed. And that’s a case that only made the local news &amp; the blogosphere before vanishing into the Wayback machine to be dug up by people like me with a reason to know her name. Imagine being afraid to call an ambulance when someone you love needs one because they could be arrested for being sick. Imagine being killed in your own home like Kathryn Johnston or Aiyana Jones. Imagine being harassed or having a gun pulled on you just because you’re going about your day while being of color.</p>
<p>We don’t have to be at a protest, or actually fit the description of a suspect to have a negative interaction with the police. Officers like <a href="http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2010-06-28/news/ct-met-burge-trial-0629-20100628_1_burge-chicago-police-cmdr-special-cook-county-prosecutors">John Burge</a> have tortured POC into confessing to crimes they didn’t commit &amp; gotten away with it for decades. We know the police cannot be trusted. So, to see the police using pepper spray on protestors, or going out dressed in riot gear to evict them from encampments? Not at all a shock. I know some will say “Well now we know, &amp; we’re trying to fix it for everyone” but you’ll pardon me if I don’t buy that the changes OWS is fighting for will extend to POC. Not when every time someone brings up race and OWS there is invariably a “It’s not about race, it’s about class. Why are you being divisive?” response from multiple people. POC of every class have to be concerned with the possibility of police brutality, &amp; until OWS addresses that reality, how can it represent the entire 99%?</p>
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		<title>On Consent, Sex Positivity, &amp; Cultures of Color after Colonization</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Aug 2011 20:04:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>karnythia</dc:creator>
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I wrote this last night while we were talking about this NSFW picture on Tumblr and all the cultural connotations imbedded in the idea of the knowing sexually available black woman teaching the young white man. We got off into sex positivity, the racially specific messages about sex that WOC often get inside their communities [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/08/25/on-consent-sex-positivity-cultures-of-color-after-colonization/">On Consent, Sex Positivity, &#038; Cultures of Color after Colonization</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>I wrote this last night while we were talking about this NSFW <a href="http://30.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lq1mkxbtk71qe59oxo1_500.jpg">picture</a> on Tumblr and all the cultural connotations imbedded in the idea of the knowing sexually available black woman teaching the young white man. We got off into sex positivity, the racially specific messages about sex that WOC often get inside their communities as well as what is projected on them from the outside and what all of that really means for us. Then we started talking about consent &amp; how it has been an illusion for so many WOC throughout history. One of my great grandmothers was a quadroon out of Louisiana, and while I&#8217;m pretty she was at the base of all the anti sex messages I got from my grandmother, I can only imagine what led her there &amp; what led my grandmother to where she ended up. She could run numbers, but my grandmother always made sex sound like a chore. So, this is a rough approximation of something I want to expand on later. </p>
<p>Looking back I don’t think they could conceive of actually owning their bodies in any meaningful way. I come from a family of beautiful women with hourglass figures (and before someone starts in about arrogance, I am not trying to be a shit, it is just our reality is one where we tend to fall into that range of physical symmetry that American culture prizes), who spent a lot of time fleeing or hiding or passing as men if they could in order to travel safely and those were skills and lessons that they passed on to their girl children. I struggle with the idea that my body belongs to me, and that’s after some legal protections (however weak and ill applied) for black women were codified. Imagine being an attractive WOC with not even that hint of protection.</p>
<p>Further, imagine a reality where rape isn’t even a concept that applies to you. A white man wants your body? Well shit, that’s what it’s there for so lay down girl so he can do his business and move on. A black man wants you? So? Be grateful someone wants you. After all, what other purpose can your body serve in this world when it looks like that? You’re too sexy to be sexless, &amp; you’re not allowed any power including the power to say no. At least not here in your home. So, what do you do? You run. North to that mythical promised land of freedom. Only you’re not free there either. Not really. Different standards apply &amp; maybe having a husband is some protection, but him being your husband after a lifetime of sexual trauma isn’t the same as whatever things might have been if your body ever belonged to you. And so you teach your daughters that sex is a thing they must do to appease men, but you separated from yourself to get through what happened &amp; you try to teach them how to do that out front so they won’t hurt like you do. Maybe it helps, maybe it doesn’t but either way you’re trying to make the best of an awful reality. And they learn their own version of the lesson that they try to pass on to their daughters. Because a black girl child isn’t safe any where &amp; so the cycle begins again only you’re further North, or education is a protection that marriage was not, or your daughters have learned not to feel, or whatever else you think might make things better.</p>
<p>Now here I stand, the last of a line of women who never owned their bodies with my own scars. I lost the right to my body before I ever knew it was mine &amp; I have the education, the husband, the law, &amp; still none of it made consent matter as much as it should in my life either. So I teach my sons about enthusiastic consent &amp; hope that works out for someone else’s daughter. And I can enjoy sex, albeit with a heavy dose of shame at times, and much coaxing from a patient man who can live with the fact that sometimes I cannot be touched at all. But I still don’t know what consent looks like without baggage, because when I cannot bear touching I will fight like a rabid dog to keep hand off me and my body to myself even though I don’t really believe it is mine and mine alone. That’s our rape culture. Consent is an illusion, the law doesn’t really protect us, &amp; the risk of enjoying sex might be the thing that turns around to bite out our souls when it blows up in our face.</p>
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		<title>Of Activists, Feminism, &amp; Mammy issues</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Aug 2011 06:10:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>karnythia</dc:creator>
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1. If your biggest complaint about American black women &#38; their activism is that they are so focused on their fight that they aren’t willing to fight your battles? It might be time to examine your internalized Mammy issues.
2. If you think we owe you admission to our spaces &#38; silence while you’re in them? [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/08/07/of-activists-feminism-mammy-issues/">Of Activists, Feminism, &#038; Mammy issues</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>1. If your biggest complaint about American black women &amp; their activism is that they are so focused on their fight that they aren’t willing to fight your battles? It might be time to examine your internalized Mammy issues.</p>
<p>2. If you think we owe you admission to our spaces &amp; silence while you’re in them? It might be time to examine your internalized Mammy issues.</p>
<p>3. If you think we owe you our time, energy, &amp; passion and you owe us nothing? It is time to examine your Mammy issues.</p>
<p>I’m not here to clean up your mess, carry your spear, hold your hand, or cheer you own while I suffer in silence. I’m not here to raise your children, assuage your guilt, build your platforms, or fight your battles. If you don’t like the spaces that we’ve carved out for ourselves, or the way we run them? That’s fine. BUILD YOUR OWN SPACES! DO YOUR OWN WORK! You want a partner? I’m down. You want a Mammy? Get away from me before I really hurt your feelings.</p>
<p>Newsflash: That Mammy thing? That claptrap about the happy servant overjoyed to leave her family to serve someone else’s? That was just that a convenient myth for racists. Those same racists are still exporting the ideal that we are too loud, too angry, too ugly, &amp; too beastly to be treated as human. We heard it when we were slaves &amp; we heard it through Jim Crow, &amp; we are still hearing it now as we sit at the intersection of racism &amp; misogyny in our own culture.That’s why we’re fighting back on our own terms.</p>
<p>We are fighting a war on so many sides that it isn’t even funny &amp; we already know that many of our so called allies will stab us in the back if it benefits their cause. We have had this fight with black men, white women, the LGBT community, &amp; so many others that I could write three lists. So, if all you have to say to us is more whining about how we’re not making activism easier for you? We don’t care. We’re not going to care. Pick up the tools we’ve already created &amp; use them or go wallow in your misery somewhere else.</p>
<p>Now, please go tell it on the mountain about how I’ve silenced you &amp; let me know if that accomplishes anything for your cause.  I’ll tell you a secret…it won’t do anything, but keep you wasting your energy on supporting the same oppressors you claim to be fighting. Address those Mammy issues, address your own issues, do something about some issue somewhere except look at us to fix it for you.</p>
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		<title>I Don&#8217;t Read Comics Much, And Here&#8217;s The Reason Why</title>
		<link>http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/07/24/i-dont-read-comics-much-and-heres-the-reason-why/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jul 2011 14:31:54 +0000</pubDate>
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Just started reading a new Tumblr called Boobs Don&#8217;t Work That Way (thanks Amal!), which is just image after image of badly drawn female anatomy, mostly from comics. Looking at the way male artists depict women, particularly in the breast area, gives the impression that they&#8217;re drawing with one hand and playing with their dicks [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/07/24/i-dont-read-comics-much-and-heres-the-reason-why/">I Don&#8217;t Read Comics Much, And Here&#8217;s The Reason Why</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>Just started reading a new Tumblr called <a href="http://boobsdontworkthatway.tumblr.com/">Boobs Don&#8217;t Work That Way</a> (thanks Amal!), which is just image after image of badly drawn female anatomy, mostly from comics. Looking at the way male artists depict women, particularly in the breast area, gives the impression that they&#8217;re drawing with one hand and playing with their dicks with the other. That&#8217;s really the only explanation for this type of bullshit. Why in the world would I want to look at something like that?</p>
<p>Granted, the image of the X-Men&#8217;s Rogue above is well drawn and pretty except for the random, unrealistic boobage in the middle. Ugh and Ugh again, people.</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Be A Rapist: Of Survivor Parenting &amp; Young Males</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2011 15:47:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>karnythia</dc:creator>
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We have a lot of conversations around masculinity now since kid #1 is  pubescent. At not quite 12 he&#8217;s starting to feel his way through what  kind of man he wants to be and having parents that he feels he can talk  to is helpful, but occasionally traumatic for all concerned. We&#8217;ve [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/06/08/dont-be-a-rapist-of-survivor-parenting-young-males/">Don&#8217;t Be A Rapist: Of Survivor Parenting &#038; Young Males</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>We have a lot of conversations around masculinity now since kid #1 is  pubescent. At not quite 12 he&#8217;s starting to feel his way through what  kind of man he wants to be and having parents that he feels he can talk  to is helpful, but occasionally traumatic for all concerned. We&#8217;ve  talked about sex, drugs, booze, and money at various points over the  last few years. All those conversations were tough but the &#8220;Don&#8217;t be a  rapist&#8221; convo was possibly the most awkward of my life.</p>
<p>When the  story first broke about the 11 year old girl being assaulted in Texas he  asked me about it. Why? Well he&#8217;s 11 and he has a ton of 11 year old  female friends. Since we&#8217;ve been pretty open about the mechanics of sex  he was upset &amp; confused at the idea of a girl like one of his  friends being forced to &#8220;do it&#8221; with anyone, much less with a group of  strangers.</p>
<p>After the initial conversation about why rape happens,  and a discussion of the harm it can do, I left the door open for him to  bring any other questions to me or his father. Over the last few months  we&#8217;ve talked about kinds of rape as he&#8217;s seen them mentioned on the news  (date, stranger, corrective, etc.) and why people blame the victims.  Lately, the conversation has turned to stuff like Slut Walks &amp; how  telling women to live a certain way in order to avoid being raped  doesn&#8217;t do anything to stop rape.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s having conversations with  his Dad of the &#8220;No means no&#8221;, &#8220;Alcohol, emotional upset, drugs, etc. can  impair judgment&#8221;, &amp; &#8220;Don&#8217;t hang out with guys that think a girl has  to be convinced to have sex&#8221; variety. At one point during the course of  these conversations I got a little worried about whether the topics  were too heavy for him. Then I had a chat with the mother of his best  female friend who reminded me that this is the age where girls start  talking about it, because this is when the warnings about how to behave  to avoid trouble really start pouring in as their bodies start changing.  So, I guess if the topic isn&#8217;t too heavy for his female friends it  isn&#8217;t too heavy for him either. Is it okay if it feels too heavy for me  right now?</p>
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		<title>Entertain us!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 May 2011 01:00:08 +0000</pubDate>
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Brazilian fantasy action flick Besouro available to watch at this link
If you need a reminder… the story goes… As essentially an action movie set in 1920s Bahia, and based on the life of a legendary capoeirista from Bahia who uses the power of Candomble to fight the harsh conditions which, even post-abolition, the black population [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/05/08/entertain-us/">Entertain us!!!</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>Brazilian fantasy action flick Besouro available to watch at <a href="http://blogs.indiewire.com/shadowandact/archives/watch_besouro_now/">this link</A></p>
<blockquote><p>If you need a reminder… the story goes… As essentially an action movie set in 1920s Bahia, and based on the life of a legendary capoeirista from Bahia who uses the power of Candomble to fight the harsh conditions which, even post-abolition, the black population endured in Brazil, <em>Besouro</em>,  tells the fantastic story of a young Afro-Brazilian man who became a symbol throughout all of Bahia for his bravery and loyalty, in defending the persecuted and oppressed.<A href="http://blogs.indiewire.com/shadowandact/archives/watch_besouro_now/">Watch Besouro now</a></p>
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<p>Via the same blog Shadow and Act comes news of this webseries  OSIRIS</p>
<p>&#8220;OSIRIS&#8221; Series Teaser Trailer (HD 1080p)<br />
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<blockquote><p>&#8220;Osiris&#8221; is a new 10-episode action/thriller Web Series featuring mystery, espionage and gritty crime fiction. The series follows the title character &#8220;Osiris&#8221;, a man with an eternally extended warranty on life. He can never stay dead. If killed, he resurrects in EXACTLY 37 minutes, every time. Each episode features a jaw dropping cliffhanger in the vein of classic shows like True Blood, Lost and 24!</p>
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<p>They got vlogs<a href="http://youtu.be/Oy5lAfMMwbQ">Part One: Introduction</a>,  <A href="http://youtu.be/9Nz4smPrhkM">Part Two: Influences</A>, <A href="http://youtu.be/l8rCHz7FnYs">Part Three: Casting</A>, <a href="http://youtu.be/fVnbDlV83xU">Part Four: Questions</A></p>
<p>And: xposted from racebending</p>
<p>Future states tv has a web series in which people make short films based on what they think the US will be like in the future. Tons of poc as actors AND directors.</p>
<p>From Season Two:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.futurestates.tv/episodes/digital-antiquities">Digital Antiquities</A> Directed by JP Chan</p>
<blockquote><p>By 2036, data loss has become a thing of the past. All digital media is instantly uploaded to the internet and permanently stored in the cloud, safely backed-up on servers scattered around the world. Only a handful of small businesses in the world have the expertise to recover data from pre-cloud devices. On a hot summer day, a young man named Kai visits Digital Antiquities, a store in eastern Pennsylvania specializing in data recovery and sales of vintage electronics. He shows Cat, the store’s only employee, an old compact disc left to him from his deceased mother and asks her to recover its contents. Will Cat help him find a working CD reader? And what will they discover among the contents of the disc?</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.futurestates.tv/episodes/spring-of-sorrow">Spring of Sorrow</A> Directed by Suzi Yoonessi</p>
<blockquote><p>Sisters Lily and Isabelle live a nomadic life, displaced by global warming. Trapped in the desert in the midst of a water shortage, Isabelle offers hope to her younger sister by telling a whimsical fairytale that allegorically explains how this tragic world came to be. When Isabelle falls ill, Lily embarks on an imaginative journey in a magical paper cut-out forest to find the mythical Spring of Sorrow, an everlasting spring of fresh water. Along the way, she forges a friendship with an eccentric florist, creates flowers and animals, and learns a valuable lesson about environmental responsibility.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.futurestates.tv/episodes/beholder">Beholder</A> by Nisha Ganitra</p>
<blockquote><p>Beholder takes place in the biosphere-protected Red Estates, a gated community with a socially conservative political majority. At a clinic where patients can genetically engineer their children, Sasha, the wife of rising political star Bobby Aryana, is informed that her baby carries the genetic marker for homosexuality. By the laws of Red Estates, this is an aberration that must be dealt with immediately, and Sasha must decide between staying faithful to the love of her life or risking everything. Touching on issues of race, sexual orientation, and conformity, Beholder examines the notion of identity and the costs of belonging.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.futurestates.tv/episodes/that-which-once-was">That Which Once Was</A> Kimi Takescue</p>
<blockquote><p>In the year 2032, Vicente, an 8-year-old Caribbean boy, has been displaced by global warming and fends for himself as an environmental refugee in a hostile Northern metropolis. Orphaned and without connection to family or friends, Vicente now lives in a children’s shelter on the fringes of the city, and struggles with anxiety, rage, and disturbing memories of the tragedy he fled. On a hot summer day, Vicente sits outside the shelter and sees a mysterious man smashing large chunks of ice against the pavement. Thus begins an unexpected friendship between Vicente and Siku, the ice carver: two people from different worlds who have both experienced tremendous loss. Through their bond, Siku ultimately helps Vicente confront his past and understand the value of memory.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.futurestates.tv/episodes/re-migration">Remigration</a> Directed by Barry Jenkins</p>
<blockquote><p>Upon returning to their countryside cabin one day, Kaya, his wife Helen, and their daughter Naomi are confronted by two suited men: representatives of the San Francisco Remigration Program. The men explain that San Francisco is now occupied entirely by the wealthy class. But stoplights still burn out and trains occasionally jump their rails. Blue-collar labor isn’t obsolete, but it’s scarce. The city has created a program to “remigrate” long-gone working class families from their inland homes back to the city that once pushed them out. Kaya, Helen, and Naomi return to San Francisco and join a handful of other potential remigrants for a tour of what can be expected in their new lives. But can they learn to trust their old home once again?</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.futurestates.tv/episodes/white">White</a> Directed by Sayeeda Clarke</p>
<blockquote><p>It’s another 120-degree day with five more days to Christmas and hot is the only season left in New York City. Global warming has accelerated and the sun has become a tangible threat to survival. Bato and his wife Gina are expecting a baby, but they weren’t expecting it so early. Although they planned to have the baby at home, Gina now requires the services of a clinic for the premature delivery. With no money for the clinic, Bato enters into a race against the sun, the birth, his community, and even his own identity to save his family as he is forced to sell the new currency of this world.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.futurestates.tv/episodes/worker-drone">Worker drone</a> Directed by Sharat Rajue</p>
<blockquote><p>Rahul’s days blend together. GlobeCom India, his employer, specializes in remote systems operation. When Rahul leaves his dungeon-like GlobeCom office, he goes to his dungeon-like living quarters in Technology City. But things change when an American contractor announces a new partnership with GlobeCom — Planet Dogstar, a massive multi-player online flying combat simulator where players shoot down targets on an alien planet. GlobeCom is hired to operate and manage the game. To decide who will lead and manage the operation, the company organizes an office showdown: whoever shoots down the most targets wins the promotion as well as a one-week furlough to leave Technology City. Can Rahul beat his coworkers to win the game?</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.futurestates.tv/episodes/exposure">Exposure</a> By Mia Trachinger</p>
<blockquote><p>Roxanne is a government agent who works as a live body contagion to immunize urban populations. Jesse is an anti-contagion activist, whose office is breeched by Roxanne’s team. Led by Roxanne, the contagions try to contain the workers inside the building, chasing them down in an attempt to mass-inoculate, while Jesse, caught in a cycle of fear and illness, soon learns that there are no easy answers.</p>
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<p>And of course go watch the other two:  <A href="http://futurestates.tv/episodes/asparagus">Asparagus</A> which has gorgeous cinematography,  and  <A href="http://futurestates.tv/episodes/the-dig">Dig</A>  and then when you are done, go check the First Season and watch all of those too!</p>
<p>So there you are! Cool stuff to watch all over the place!</p>
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Heading to WisCon in a month, despite the earlier unpleasantness. Actually, because of it, in some part. Perhaps more on that later. In the meantime, two bits of information for you:
I&#8217;m heading up the POC Safer Space at the con and attempting to make it as useful and pleasant as possible. If you&#8217;re coming to [...]<p><p><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/04/29/wiscon-35-yes-i-will-be-there/">WisCon 35 &#8211; Yes, I Will Be There</a> -- Originally posted at <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com">The Angry Black Woman</a></p></p>
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<p>Heading to WisCon in a month, despite the <a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2010/10/21/you-people-are-out-of-your-goddamned-minds/">earlier unpleasantness</a>. Actually, <em>because </em>of it, in some part. Perhaps more on that later. In the meantime, two bits of information for you:</p>
<p>I&#8217;m heading up the POC Safer Space at the con and attempting to make it as useful and pleasant as possible. If you&#8217;re coming to WisCon and wish to express a desire or a need having to do with that space, please <a href="http://tempest.fluidartist.com/wiscon-35-safer-space-for-poc-ideas-discussion/">click here and say so in the comments</a> or email me from that site if your concerns are private.</p>
<p>Also, these are the panels/readings I&#8217;m on:</p>
<p><strong>How To Describe Nonwhite Characters Sans Fail</strong><sup><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/04/29/wiscon-35-yes-i-will-be-there/#footnote_0_1945" id="identifier_0_1945" class="footnote-link footnote-identifier-link" title="I&amp;#8217;m collecting people&amp;#8217;s favorite descriptions on the other blog as well in preparation for this one.">1</a></sup><br />
Sat, 4:00–5:15 pm | Wisconsin</p>
<p>M: Mary Doria Russell, K. Tempest Bradford, Moondancer Drake, Amal El-Mohtar, Rachel Virginia Swirsky</p>
<p>How do we get beyond &#8220;Her skin was the color of a delicious Coca-Cola?&#8221; What metaphors, similes, techniques, and descriptors are less problematic when describing nonwhite characters&#8217; physical bodies? We&#8217;re starting from <a href="http://www.kith.org/journals/jed/2009/06/12/12163.html">this post by Jed</a>.</p>
<p><strong>How to Respond Appropriately to Concerns About Cultural Appropriation</strong><br />
Sun, 1:00–2:15 pm | Wisconsin</p>
<p>M: Victor Raymond, K. Tempest Bradford, Mary Doria Russell, Geoff Ryman, Rachel Virginia Swirsky</p>
<p>At WisCon 33, the Carl Brandon Society taught a course which reviewed the basic concepts around race, colonial history, and cultural appropriation, along with a discussion of ways to build a vocabulary to discuss these topics. Let&#8217;s use that background to discuss what would be appropriate, considered, thoughtful responses by authors to concerns that their work contains cultural appropriation.</p>
<p><strong>SIBLING OF REVENGE OF NOT ANOTHER F*CKING RACE PANEL</strong><sup><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/04/29/wiscon-35-yes-i-will-be-there/#footnote_1_1945" id="identifier_1_1945" class="footnote-link footnote-identifier-link" title="YOU GUYS. I am super excited about this panel. I&amp;#8217;m collecting ideas on topics from my wonderful co-panelists right now, but excited suggestions are indeed welcome. Also welcome: ideas on how to do the game show aspect of things this year. I&amp;#8217;m considering water guns&amp;#8230;">2</a></sup><br />
Sun, 2:30–3:45 pm | Wisconsin</p>
<p>M: K. Tempest Bradford, Amal El-Mohtar, Michelle Kendall, Victor Raymond, LaShawn M. Wanak<sup><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/04/29/wiscon-35-yes-i-will-be-there/#footnote_2_1945" id="identifier_2_1945" class="footnote-link footnote-identifier-link" title="Did I mention how much I heart my panelists?">3</a></sup></p>
<p>Back for a third go-round, by popular demand! Writers of color working in F/SF face unique challenges, it&#8217;s true. But, at the end of the day, being a &#8220;person of color&#8221; is only one aspect of what makes up our identities as writers. While it&#8217;s very flattering to asked to be on panels, most of these panels never crack the ceiling of Race 101. With that in mind, wouldn&#8217;t it be nice for <em>multiple </em>writers of color to sit on a panel that<em> isn&#8217;t about race at all?</em> Here&#8217;s our chance to do just that. So, what are we gonna talk about, instead? Practically anything! Presented in game show format, SIBLING OF REVENGE OF NOT ANOTHER F*CKING RACE PANEL brings together writers of color to get their geek on about any number of pop culture topics—none of them race related.</p>
<p><strong>Reading: For Colored Girls Who&#8217;ve Considered Shapeshifting, Teleporting, &amp; Conjuring&#8230;.</strong><sup><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/04/29/wiscon-35-yes-i-will-be-there/#footnote_3_1945" id="identifier_3_1945" class="footnote-link footnote-identifier-link" title="I are intimidated.">4</a></sup><br />
Sun, 4:00–5:15 pm | Conference 2</p>
<p>K. Tempest Bradford, Neesha Meminger, Nnedi Okorafor, LaShawn M. Wanak, Ibi Aanu Zoboi</p>
<p><strong>Is Science Fiction the New Reality?</strong><sup><a href="http://theangryblackwoman.com/2011/04/29/wiscon-35-yes-i-will-be-there/#footnote_4_1945" id="identifier_4_1945" class="footnote-link footnote-identifier-link" title="So, check out the list of panelists there. Yeah. And I get to moderate. Bring popcorn.">5</a></sup><br />
Mon, 10:00–11:15 am | Caucus</p>
<p>M: K. Tempest Bradford, Richard Chwedyk, James Frenkel, Naomi Kritzer, Shira Lipkin</p>
<p><em>Star Trek</em> offers a vision of the future that includes personal, networked communicators, talking, intelligent computers, and the tricorder, a portable, hand-held networked computing device. Today we have cellphones, IBM&#8217;s Watson,and the iPad. Are we already living in the science-fiction future? What does this mean for writers of speculative fiction?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m also going to do my best to coordinate the POC dinner for Friday.
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<h4>Footnotes</h4><ol class="footnotes"><li id="footnote_0_1945" class="footnote">I&#8217;m collecting people&#8217;s <a href="http://tempest.fluidartist.com/your-favorite-descriptions/">favorite descriptions</a> on the other blog as well in preparation for this one.</li><li id="footnote_1_1945" class="footnote">YOU GUYS. I am super excited about this panel. I&#8217;m collecting ideas on topics from my wonderful co-panelists right now, but excited suggestions are indeed welcome. Also welcome: ideas on how to do the game show aspect of things this year. I&#8217;m considering water guns&#8230;</li><li id="footnote_2_1945" class="footnote">Did I mention how much I heart my panelists?</li><li id="footnote_3_1945" class="footnote">I are intimidated.</li><li id="footnote_4_1945" class="footnote">So, check out the list of panelists there. Yeah. And I get to moderate. Bring popcorn.</li></ol>]]></content:encoded>
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